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I have moved!
01.15.05 (4:01 pm)   [edit]

All right yall, I am moving...no not my home but my blog.


I have been trying to move all my shit over but it's been rough. Now Tblog decides to give me back all my archives!! Well..... to late!! Anywho-If you'd like to go down memory lane...read the archives. If you want to get to know my new home click the link below. Be sure to sign my guestbook and leave your comments. It is still a work in progress so bear with me. loads of love!


Y.T


Queen B


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Dear Ma
01.05.05 (4:15 am)   [edit]

 


 


Dear ma,


 


Have I ever told you I love you?


Well I should have


Do you realize how much you mean to me?


I’ll tell you


Does it seem like all your suffering was in vain?


It wasn’t


Do I make you sometimes feel like I don’t appreciate you?


Because I do


No matter what you do, how you act, what you say and who you are


I will always be glad that you are my mother. I love you unconditionally and I am grateful to the almighty that he chose you as the vessel to give me life.


We may not always see eye to eye but understand that I will forever be in your debt for the sacrifices you made for me.


I would not trade you for anything in the world and I would not change a damn thing about you.


Forgive me if I seem ungrateful at times, because I am not. I am grateful I have you in my life and I am proud that you are my mum.


If ever again you are in doubt of my love for you, read my words, keeping in mind that they are sincere and find comfort in them.


This New Year, I will work on our relationship, I will do my part and whenever I fall short, be sure to do yours.


 


Y.T.


Omobolanle

 
My New Year Weekend
01.05.05 (4:09 am)   [edit]

 


 


I had an absolutely fabulous weekend; It started out lazy, considering I spent the entire half of the day in bed. My phone was ringing of the ying yang and I was to lazy to pick it up but my trusted Princess O filled in as secretary and I heard her every few minutes or so saying “ my mum is sleeping...call back”. I finally got up to go grocery shopping because my girls were coming to visit, Moji, Lola and Tolu. I made them catfish and rice. They arrived at about 6pm, I was so excited, and I guess I do miss MD just a bit. I called Remi to join us on a night out. We had a blast! We went to Jillian’s with Remi, Dupe and Derenle on Saturday night and then on Sunday we went to church, then to the mall. I went to Benetton to visit my beloved jacket, still not on sale and winter is almost over! Moji and I fought as usual, and then made up just as quickly. I indulged in a cinnabon knowing my ass was starting to look like Anna Nicole’s before trim spa! I am getting humongous! I now wear a size 10! I don’t know where it came from but its gotta go! Okay after this one last cinnabon. Note to self: Loose 25lbs by summer 2005. I know I am not that big but considering the type of shit I like to wear…I’ll just look ridiculous! I refuse to come to terms with the fact that I can no longer shop in the juniors department!


We took a bunch of pictures and headed home for dinner! I made Jollof rice and curry chicken with the help of Lola. We chilled for a bit after dinner and then we decided to go see ‘meet the Fockers’ Remi and Dupe joined us. It was hilarious! We stayed up till 5:30 am gisting about everything! My ass is going to be tired as hell Monday morning! I decided to spend the morning with my girls, we went shopping again, well they went shopping my broke ass just watched. They headed back to MD at about 4 pm. I decided to spend the rest of the day at Remi’s. BTW my dawg Remi recently bought a crib! 3 bedroom, 2 ½ baths, 2-door garage single family home. That shit is like that! she laid it out! It is tastefully and sparingly furnished and looked like something out of cribs! Kudos to Remi, I am so proud of you sister girl! I gave her an abstract 36x40 painting I made and it hangs over her fireplace, I think it’s my best work yet. Moji made me promise to make her one too, and I shall.


I am glad my chicka were in town this weekend it started my new year on a good note and took my mind off all the shit that has been bothering me.


 


I wish you all a very fabulous new year and may God bless you as he continues to bless me.


 

 
Twenty something….
01.01.05 (9:05 am)   [edit]
Its the begining of a new year and I dug up one of my old articles on a subject that resurfaces every holiday and especially on new year when you start cleaning house. It is interesting that I felt this way exactly a year ago and for the most part I still do, except now I know that if you do it for the wrong reasons, it won't last or you'll be misarable so I'll wait for 'The One'.

At twenty something we’ve done the school thing, moved out on our own, we have the whole independence thing worked out but the damn clock won’t stop ticking.
We can no longer go to all the gigs because we are too old, can’t socialize with the younger folks lest we be call ‘agbaya’. In every girl’s mind we are thinking marriage, marriage, kids, kids and some more marriage. All the dudes you meet- you are sizing up as potential husband.
You’ve got a few girlfriends that have caught one, but for some weird reason them bitches get on your damn nerves, everything you say or do suddenly become immature, their favorite thing to say is ‘wait till you get married’ …… well... shit bitch!, I am waiting!
Remember when you were kids and you’d gist with your friends on what age you intend to marry, what the guy’s profession would be and how you’d live happily ever after! Well damn! No one ever said you’d have to wait this damn long! And please don‘t you dear mention the subject when you do catch one, he will run so fast, ya head go spin! Why is that? Why is it that all a twenty something woman thinks about is marriage but the men don’t want to hear it?
I attended a wedding recently where the groom was like 26 and the bride was a mere 19! How in the hell did she pull that off! Yeah I was jealous! Jealous not of her man but jealous that I did not have one of my own! “Lucky bitch!” I kept saying to myself. It was the most beautiful ceremony though. As they pledged their undying love to each other my eyes welled up with tears of envy! She was so beautiful and he so adored her!

So what do we do now? You’ve got it all in perspective but you are nearing your expiration date and no one has taken you off the shelf! What do we do I ask? Well I’ll tell you what the hell I’m gonna do, what the rest of the 20 something heifers out here do….. Fake like it don’t even matter!


Bola Odegbami