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I stole this from CP....sorry boo!
06.30.04 (7:48 pm)   [edit]
Act your age? Or younger? Probably my age

Born on what day of the week? Shit….I dunno

Chore you hate? Dishes and Laundry

Dad’s name? Olujimi

Essential makeup item? Kajal

Favorite actor? Male?Mos Def Female? Angela Bassett

Gold or silver? Silver

Hometown? Wasimi Oloshe.

Instruments you play? Violin

Job title? Sitter

Kids? Omolayo Feyintoluwa, the apple in my eye…the pain in my ass!

Living arrangements? 2 bedroom apartment.

Mum’s name? Moji

Need? Love

Overnight hospital stays? 6 time a year

Phobias? Water, roller coasters

Quote you like? Life has no guarantees

Religious affiliation? Christian.

Siblings? 5 in all…papa was a rolling stone

Time you wake up? 7am at the earliest

Unique talent? Shopping at a bargain

Vegetable you refuse to eat? Brussels Sprout

Worst habit? Used to be smoking…then I quit; now I need a new one.

X-rays you’ve had? Chest, abdomen, teeth…hell my whole body

Yummy food you make? Efo, Jollof rice and curry chicken.

Zodiac Sign? Virgo
 
Oh hell na!
06.30.04 (7:09 pm)   [edit]
OK, this is just too much! Can you say "privacy?" As in, "where
is our right to it??? I definitely removed mine, I suggest you do the
same .... Now you can see anyone's Driver's License on the Internet,
including your own! I just searched for mine

and there it was...picture and all! Thanks Homeland Security!
Maybe we should start up a petition or something protesting this. What
do you think? Go to the website and check it out. It's unbelievable!!!
Just enter your name, City and state to see
if yours is on file. After your license comes on the screen,
click the box marked "Please Remove". his will remove it from public
viewing, but not from law enforcement.

http://www.license.shorturl.c...
 
Ghetto Wedding!!!
06.26.04 (7:03 am)   [edit]


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I found this funny as hell!
 
I miss ya MO!
06.22.04 (2:40 pm)   [edit]
Moji, Doyin and Tolu girl are supposedly coming down to see me this weekend! I say supposedly because Doyin is in the mix and Doyin is the flakiest MF I know so...we'll see! Ekpen also said he may drive down for the day, depending on his mood….warefa! Any who it will be nice having a bunch of friends in the house especially my girl Moji! I miss that heifer so much! I miss talking bout people's clothes shoes and hair and that unspoken connection we have when we see something way out there and we look at each other and blurt "NO SHE DIENT!" in unison. I also miss the fact that Mo is so fucking buoyant she always assures me that everything is fine, even when they are not! At such times I want to bitch slap her ass back to reality but in retrospect I just smile that she remains so positive!
A typical example; Tell Moji that you just got your car repo-ed and you account is at negative $1500, your man is sleeping with his cousin and you are reacting to your spemicide. Moji will have a response like, “You didn’t like that car anyway, you’ll break even on your account next payday, I never trusted that guy anyway he doesn’t deserve you and try some Neosporin on that rash, it worked for my zit”…and she’ll finish with “All these things will not break you but make you stronger, lets rent ‘waiting to exhale’ tonight..okay?”
Anyway, I can’t wait till they come, Remi will be out of town this weekend so perfect timing!
 
Remi's Birthday
06.21.04 (8:04 pm)   [edit]
Here is a picture of the cake I got Remi on her Birthday!
We had a small RARA, it was nice. Happy Birthday Remi!
MY DOG , My CAt . My ace boon coon, My #1 STUNNER!
mY BITCH!
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rEMI AND i HAVE THIS THING WHERe WE PRetend to be lovers, you know lesbians. Well we were at the mall after church on Sunday, remi was picking up green and blue shoes (dont ask) anyway, the saleman was Foine as hell right.....so I puker up for remi to kiss me and she did! on the fucking lips! We fucking kissed in Nordstroms! WTF! I did not think she'd go through with it but that heifer is a crazier bitch than I'll ever be! anyway the sales man now thinks we are lovers! so there goes another potential man for mua!
 
Do you believe in love and its power to conquer all?
06.21.04 (7:18 pm)   [edit]

Do you believe that unconditional love cannot be compromised? I do, but I think a lot of folks have given up on love and it makes me sad. Our generation has chosen to settle for the next best thing. We love for different reasons but true love really does exist. Irv Gotti said “ you are allowed 3 great love in your life” I am totally feeling him on that…but how do you know when you’ve exhausted your share?
Why is it that some get it right on the first try, but most never find it at all?
Is it possible to love someone you’ve never met? You know… like a cyberpal. Or can you fall in love at the very first sight? Maybe it will take a friendship that evolves into love, just so you don’t recognize it right away.
When love is not reciprocated does that count against you or against the one you love? I think you are allowed to love as many times as you can but only get 3 chances to be loved in return. It is now up to you to hold on to one of those 3 loves and just incase you miss it the first two times…. you get one more chance!
So what happens if you let it pass you by? Well then you live a life without love, a life of reason, you miss out on the rush and the butterflies and the skipping heartbeats and the lack of sleep when you haven’t seen your love and the sudden loss of appetite from thinking about your love. You miss out on all the good things love can bring.
How then do you recognize love? I am not perfectly sure but for me it’s when;
· You can stand him snoring all night…music to your ears
· You watch him do the #2
· You kiss him first thing in the morning
· You can fart without discomfort and find it hysterical
· You can pick your nose and roll it…. then show him
· You pick his nose and remove wax from his ears
· You wear your ‘laundry day’ underwear when his around
· You can tell him that last round was not so good
· You can cry when his around
· You let him watch you change your pad/tampon
· You wear his shirt to bed when he isn’t there
· Your heart skips a beat when his name pops up on your CID
· You laugh out loud when you think of a personal moment you shared
· Your face lights up when he walks into a room
· No matter how bad your day has been, he can make you smile

I could go on for days but its different for everyone, and if dude is comfortable with half of these things…. chances are he loves you too!
I know, I know…I am such a hopeless romantic!
 
Why am I so damn short!
06.20.04 (7:14 pm)   [edit]
Okay so I am 5 '4, the majority of my adult life, I've always thought I was 5'6. I have 5'6 on my ID and I argue with friends that I'm 5'6. I was in trhe hospital recently and I was asked about my height and I said 5'6 with cofidence, only for the nurse to insist I get measured again! Well it turns out I am 5'4. I know you are like WTF is she going on about her height? Well if you look at the pictures below with Wande Moji and I, you will find that they are a good 4/5 inches taller than me! I make it a point to buy the highest heeled shoe but no, my ass is still a dwarf compared to other chicks.
I am actually taller than both my mother and father, so you can just imagine the genes I had to work with!
There gotta be something a sister can do! I am already 25 so I wont be doing any more growing so from where cometh my help?
 
Pictures From Shola's Wedding
06.19.04 (9:59 pm)   [edit]


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Bridal Party
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Shola (Bride)
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Omolayo (Flower Girl)
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The Happy Couple
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Wande, Mua and Moji
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Moji and I
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Mua again
 
I am the A Woman
06.17.04 (4:11 pm)   [edit]
I found this an interesting read.

To all of my good freinds........... please do not be deceived.....


I am the A woman. This is the hardest position to maintain. I am the
one he spends his time with, the one he calls "his girl" to his friends.
I am the one he sleeps with and shares his thoughts with. I am his chauffeur,
loan, lender, cheerleader, punching bag and concubine. I am the one that
was good enough to meet the boys: and the one he complains about the most.

She is the B woman. The one that's just a friend, he says, "...she's
just like a sister to me." She never ridicules him for smoking, drinking,
gambling, or any of his faults. The good one, the clean, wholesome
one. The one he secretly wants to get with. She is the one to get the
*bleep*if she just said the word.

She is the C woman. The ex that shoulda, coulda, & woulda been...only
if. She is the one who talks to him so good. The one who understands him.
The one who did those things I won't do. The one who gives him such great
advice & helps him sort out problems. I couldn't help him with. The one
who sticks around just in case we don't work out. His ace in the hole. She's
theone he won't refuse if she comes on to him, the one he kisses & touches,
but won't go all the away with; the one he'd f*#ck if it weren't for me.

She is the D woman. I found her number in his pocket after that night
he & the boys went to the show. You know, that night he called when he
usually doesn't. She is the one that he's only spoken to once or twice;
the one with the fat booty & big tidies. The potential freak. Now he tells me
just enough to cover the tracks he has, is & will lay. So he can convince
himself he's being honest. So I won't have reason to doubt him. He says,
"Trust me...I am not like most men."

I guess he just forgets that...I am B, C, & D to someone else.

AUTHOR UNKNOWN
 
Shola’s Wedding
06.10.04 (12:54 pm)   [edit]



We all got up for breakfast bright and early and rushed back to get ready for the big day, I had taken at least a dozed Tylenol since last night so I was feeling better. Shola went to get her nails done as the rest of us took turns in front of the mirror. We were scheduled to have pictures taken at 2pm. I dressed Omolayo and she looked like an absolute angel!
Shola was looking radiant in her wedding dress, Wande did her hair and Deola did her make-up.
Moji and Busola got in just as the ceremony was starting. It was beautiful all around, well planned and detailed.
The service lasted about 45 mins and we headed outside for more pictures. Omolayo was getting irate, she didn’t want to take any more pictures and she wanted out of the dress.
I had to be there for every picture to keep her ass calm.
The reception was really nice, it was a banquet hall right in from of a pool, There was a table as you entered with a picture frames for all the guests with their name and table number on it.
I read the couple a poem from Sex in the City, I was actually saving for my wedding but hell I will write one for myself.

His hello was the end of her endings
Her smile was their first step down the isle
His hands would be hers to hold forever
His forever was as simple as her smile
He said she was what was missing
She said instantly she knew
He was a question to be answered
And her answer is….I do!

We ate, danced and mingled with the Laughlintown folks and we showed them how to do the cha cha.
It was a memorable day, I really had a blast. We headed back to MD.

 
Chain of events…
06.09.04 (6:51 pm)   [edit]

I woke up Monday morning with horribly a chest pain, I could hardly get up from my bed, I could not possibly get up for work today. My phone rang it was Remi, as if she read my mind, she panicked as usual when I told her how I was feeling. She drove me to the emergency room. I was discharged later that day.
I stayed home for the next couple days and I finally returned to work on Thursday.
I was going to drive to MD on Thursday night but I did not feel up to it so I decided to leave first thing in the morning.

Dare rented me a car for my trip and Omolayo and I set out at about 5:30am Friday
We got to MD at about 9:30am and went straight to Folusho’s place; we were going to go see Omolayo’s grandma but I was told Tolu might be there so I decided against it.
We ate Eba and Efo (my favorite). Wande was waiting for me by the time we got to Moji’s place. The plan was for Wande, Deola, Omolayo and I to drive to Pennsylvania together and on Saturday Moji and Busola Grillo will come down together.
We got to PA at about 5:30pm and rushed to get ready for the rehearsal at 6pm.
I wasn’t feeling so hot; it was freezing in PA so Funmi gave me her shawl.
Rehearsal was a breeze, Omolayo took her job of throwing petals very seriously, I was really proud.

[b]Highlight of the day![/b]
At dinner, the bride’s brother, Shade, gave a toast to his sister and her husband to be. He concluded the toast by proposing to Funmi! I was so happy for her you would think he proposed to me! Oh and let me tell you about the bling! It was about 2 karats altogether and the clarity and color was like WHOA! Round cut diamond with supporting baguettes set in platinum and yellow gold! It was perfect! Funmi was shocked beyond words and Shade was smiling sheepishly, he is such a quiet dude, so this must have been hard as hell.
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