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| My head! |
| 12.31.03 (11:53 am) [edit] |
Oh my goodness! I have the worst headache ever! WTF? I have been working all day…none stop, my head hurts like hell! I have major gist from last night but I am in pain right now so I can’t be hilarious. To all my faithful readers…I will holla back in the 04.
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| Boobs 'r' us! |
| 12.30.03 (2:50 pm) [edit] |
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Just look at those ta-tas! :D
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| Momo and Y.T |
| 12.30.03 (2:25 pm) [edit] |
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No we are not lovers just friends. I guess Moji likes my milkshake better than hers!:lol:
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| So Yesterday.... |
| 12.30.03 (9:30 am) [edit] |
Oooh Wee! Moji and I got tickets to the New Year thingy we are going to…FREE! I am really excited, my ass was unwilling and unable to pay $60 for didly squat!
That’s good, so anyway I did absolutely nothing at work yesterday at least not work related, I was on the phone 7 ½ hours of my 8 hour day! I spoke with my sister and Moji and Dude and Uncle Timi…pretty much everybody. After work Moji and I were supposed to go to the mall but her ass was in her nightie when I got there! Bukky was there as well so we just ditched the mall idea and chilled. I spoke with FRIEND today…my heart skipped a beat when I saw his name on my caller ID, I called him twice earlier to vent, but he was unavailable. So we talked, he was in a hurry though so I didn’t really share much, but I wanted to talk to him about so many things…I may have found in him a new best friend. Moji and I went to see a friend who was hooking us up with the tickets…who happened to be very interested in Moji. I thought they’d make a cute couple…she not sure yet, the guy is sharp, he dresses really nice, a little too nice for a guy! I’ll give you a visual. Picture a dude in wine satin PJ with a navy blue velvet robe with his initials (D), smoking a pipe with his $$$$$ eye glasses and corduroy fleece lined slippers from Neimen Marcus….are you following? Aight… laid back on his leather recliner in front of a burning fire, reading wall street journal and sipping Columbia’s finest. This is what I see when I look at this guy…the shit cracks me up! I think him and Momo would be perfect for each other….don’t get me wrong, brother is mad cool! I just think Moji would compliment him quite nicely!
So Moji, Molayo and I stopped by McDonald on our way home and ordered from the $$ menu, we were mad hungry and brother was a true bachelor. I didn’t get home till after 11pm. I logged on to LVIP and chatted with Fash for a bit. A light bulb flashed…I just got this brilliant idea! stay tuned.....
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| My Uncle Segun! |
| 12.29.03 (9:38 am) [edit] |
My uncle is so sweet....I'll share his response to all I've written about 03......
[b]Dearest Bola,
The strange thing about all you wrote about you in 2003 would make a great movie, if you choose to see it like that. The writing of it in short responses was absolutely brilliant! I mean the ALL of it. The men, the weeds, the sickness, the boredom, the failures, the dissapointments. What an exciting life you had!!!
Take your experiences to the market place and discover the shock of your life......It was worse with 90% of the world...particularly those that you must have thought had a good time.
Reduce your expectations about life, no resolutions, celebrate whatever comes with lavish abandon and experience the magic of perception. Life is all about perception...how you choose to see all that happens to you. It is absolutely your choice to see 2003 the way you did... so go into 2004 embracing new possibilities and opportunities. You are a great, beautifuuuul gal..don’t allow anything, or anyone to paint a different picture. Seeing you at the end of 2004 with lots to celebrate!!!
Big Seg[/b]
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| 2003 |
| 12.29.03 (9:34 am) [edit] |
1.What did you do in 2003 that you’d never done before? Smoke weed
2. Did you keep your new years’ resolutions, and will you make more
for next year? Nope, Yup
3. Did anyone close to you give birth? Uncle Timi
4. Did anyone close to you die? Nope
5. What countries did you visit? None hey does NC count?
6. What would you like to have in 2004 that you lacked in 2003? A
man
7. What date from 2003 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
none
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year? nada
9. What was your biggest failure? There is not enough room to write
10. Did you suffer illness or injury? Lots
11. What was the best thing you bought? My Red stiletto
12. Whose behavior merited celebration? Omolayo
13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed? Gbemi
14. Where did most of your money go? Shoes
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about? nada
16. What song will always remind you of 2003? Milk Shake, the wire
17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
i. happier or sadder? Sadder
ii. thinner or fatter? fatter
iii. richer or poorer? poorer
18. What do you wish you’d done more of? Go to church
19. What do you wish you’d done less of? Fall in love
20. How will you be spending Christmas? Home....Alone
22. Did you fall in love in 2003? But of course
23. How many one-night stands? One night werrin?
24. What was your favorite TV program? Sex and the City
25. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last
year? Nope ....oh yeah Olumide
26. What was the best book you read? The game of life and how you
play it
27. What was your greatest musical (re)discovery? none
28. What did you want and get? nothing
29. What did you want and not get? everything
30. What was your favorite film of this year? Finding Nemo
31. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? Nada 25
32. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more
satisfying? Everything I didn’t get
33. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2003?
Hey! I held it down
34. What kept you sane? Omolayo
35. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? F*@K them all
36. What political issue stirred you the most? none
37. Who did you miss? God
38. Who was the best new person you met? No one
39. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2003: Don’t be too
vulnerable...life sucks!
40. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year:
Me myself and I is all I got in the end...that’s what I found
out...aint no need to cry...cus from now on I’mma be my own best friend.
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| What a day! |
| 12.27.03 (9:47 pm) [edit] |
My baby and I were bored stiff today so we decided to go to the mall, I figured I while away time before it was time pick up Bukky. Bukky is flying back from Florida. Omolayo looked and me from the rear view mirror and said ' It alright mummy, don't be sad' how the F@#K does she do that? This kid is scary! I told her I was fine and she said 'Whatever' and rolled her eyes! I think Omolayo is an Alien! Any who, I walked around the mall broke as ever! Omolayo was getting irritated so I decided to head out, besides it was well after 4 pm and I needed to be at the airport for five. I headed out to my car only to find that I had misplaced my ride! WTF? How the hell do you lose your car? I roamed aimlessly around the parking lot for a good hour and some before I found the piece of shit! I was highly irritated! My phone was almost dead and I needed to call Bukky...Guess what? I don't have her number on my Sprint phone! (By the way Moji, my sprint phone is malfunctioning, Seyi's picture shows up on all my calls!) sorry folks...side tracking again. I decided to call Moji so she can tell Bukky I am enroute, this heifer wanted to start yarning TP! I was already mad about freezing my joints off looking for the piece of crap I call a car! Okay so I snapped at Moji and shit! I felt bad afterwards and I called her to explain.
I brought Bukky back to my crib...the plan was to catch a couple movies, but this chick knew her ass was tired. We ended up chilling at my crib and watching Harry Potter. I felt a crises coming on so I asked Bukky to drive my car home cause my ass could not go back outside. I will have to call Ekpen to take me to pick up my car in the AM.
I watched more TV and decided to update my blog...so much to say so little space!
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| Christmas Day |
| 12.27.03 (9:18 pm) [edit] |
Christmas turned out to be not so bad...initially I slept all day still kinda depressed, everybody and their momma was blowing up my phone! WTF? I spoke with my FRIEND today and I realized it will be mad hard to let him go, but I need to focus on what is best for us both. Why do I fall in love with people who dont want me? First it was MR.Harry, then MR. E and now Friend? Moji says I am simply infatuated and not in love...I think she wants us to be in denial together! But really is it possible to fall in love 3 times in 2 years?( leave your comments...I am mad curious) Molayo's dad dropped by to say hello to her ( now thats a nigga I was in LUST with), he stepped in my crib for the first time, I figure I'd let him...after all it is Christmas, he brought Molayo more gifts and stayed for like 5 minutes and was gone. Ekpen came over and we ate...it is good that I have such cool friends, I can just chill with. He fell asleep watching videos and I went back to bed as well. I got up at about 4 and jumped in the shower Nicky invited me to her crib for x-mas and so did Ms. Pat.
Ms. Pat is actually my friend's mum, she was the neighborhood mum when I was in high school, she used to drag us all to church like 3 times a week and Sundays too!
So I convinced Ekpen to accompany me to both places and he reluctantly agreed. Uncle Seye and Folusho stopped by my crib right before we left and brought gifts for Omolayo and I...that was really thoughtful.
Nicky's house was packed with family and presents! they remind me of everything I lack! I pray my kids have this kind of sentiments about the holidays when they grow up...I guess I have to instill those values in them.
Nikky even had a gift for Omolayo and I! I stayed for like an hour then headed to Columbia to see Ms. Pat. This lady made egusi and Jollof rice! She has a Nigerian man so I taught her how to make a couple Nigerian dishes and WOW she is great at it now! I saw Marla and Michelle and Omolayo got to play with Jalen, my god son. Jalen's mum Shonique is Ms. Pats daughter we've been friends since the 9th grade.
I met up with Moji and her friend at Columbia mall...we saw Something's with Jack Nicholson, it was aight.
Moji was whining about something on our way back home, I didn't really pay attention...I was in my own world. Got home at about 10 and went straight to bed.
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| X-mas eve |
| 12.27.03 (9:11 pm) [edit] |
Christmas eve...aight so my ass finally got dressed and went to Uncle Timi's naming thingy. The baby looked just like Tiolu and guess what? her name is Tiola! Uncle Timi's got to lay off the paw-paw leaves! I saw a bunch of faces I hadn't seen in a while and Moji was having a good time which was great for me. I hate it when I take my friends out and I stay worried because they are not having a good time. One of my sister's friends was chatting me up...the thing is I don't know about this one...my sixth sense is malfunctioning at the moment, besides its way too early for me to get all excited about another man....right? The thing is Guys have always been there but when you are in love with one all others become invincible. So its like I had on my [i]'I am emotionally available'[/i] tee-shirt! I have always had a thing for dude...yeah, just a thing, but I never nursed it...you know a passing crush. My sister's got some cute ass friends, but they are all whores! Man whores!!! so whose to say dude is any different. In fact all men are whores...yes o! believe it! I am fucking male bashing...[b]AND WHAT?[/b]
I think FRIEND may be rekindling old flames, the more I think about it the more sense it makes to me! Sorry to stray off the dude subject but damn!
Hey! here's an idea....FRIEND and DUDE can pick a spot on my royal ASS and pucker up!
So I helped uncle Timi clean up and shit, then I packed a shit load of doggy bags and bounced.
Molayo pissed me the hell off. She peed on herself right, then wanted to remove all her clothes minutes before it was time to go...I gave her the butt whooping of her life! Yeah I beat her ass..she needs it! She can be so damn stubborn! I still love her to bits though! All Moji could worry about was her precious car getting wet! I can't wait for her to swallow roach! Her uppity ass will recognize! I was beat by the time we got home...slept like a baby...tomorrow is Christmas huh?.....well bring it!
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| arrrgggghhh! |
| 12.24.03 (12:22 pm) [edit] |
It is Christmas eve and why is my ass still at work? WTF? What is up with that?
I had a really emotional morning, If one more person asks me what the matter is, I will tell them to fuck off to hell! Which part of I do not wish to discuss jack are yall not comprehending.
I got to know TT a lot more today…quite insightful, its amazing what you learn about a person….she is really cool.
I got Moji on my line, me and this heifer have been on the phone forever…saying jack shit. Alright..so I’m going to Uncle Timi’s later today…not looking forward to it but that’s my dog…gotta go represent. I am totally depressed, but handling it in a different way…If I do not get out of this office soon…I cannot be held responsible for my actions or outburst!!!:x
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| Quite upset! |
| 12.23.03 (9:05 am) [edit] |
Argh! I am livid! Have you ever been so mad that your throat lumps up because you are about to cry? Or you feel a dire need to just scream? That’s how I fell right now!
Please don’t ask me what’s the matter, I don’t want to discuss it! I just want to be left completely alone! Argh!
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| Last Night |
| 12.23.03 (7:21 am) [edit] |
I have decided not to go to NY with Moji this weekend…a lot of reasons but mostly because I am not really up for the hassle. I am sure it will be a lot of fun but I’ll pass this time. Moji is a bit disappointed but she’ll be aight, there are lots of other friends that will be there to represent….sorry baby girl, I am sure you understand.:wink:
Weird night, I slept at about 9:30pm, I had a nightmare and woke up around 2am and I tossed and turned for the rest of the night! :? Now that I think about it, I should have prayed, I haven’t had a nightmare in ages! I absolutely abhor this time of year, its totally depressing, :roll: I am in a bad mental state! Oh my God! I got yet another gift today! AS IF!:x What did I say? Apparently everyone around me has been contaminated by the HOHO Virus, I just hope its not contagious!
Uncle Timi’s wife Aunty Foluke had a baby girl! I am so happy for her! Well, they had the baby last Wednesday which mean we get to throw down tomorrow YE HA! I haven’t gotten around to visiting but I’ll definitely be stopping by tomorrow! Okay I need to act like I am working now :roll: so I will holla back later!
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| Again! |
| 12.22.03 (1:05 pm) [edit] |
I got another gift at work today...this is the third one! WTF, I told these folks that I dont do christmas but no! they still try to infect me with the HO HO HO!
Just incase some of yall did not get this memo! I am posting it again cus not a damn thing's changed!
[b]This christmas you're all getting forks I've stolen from numerous different restaurants with a note attached saying: if anyone asks, you didn't get this from me. so there. or better yet, I'll give you stolen napkins cus I may be able to milk some money out of that homeless guy down the street for those forks...sorry. [/b]
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| Boring ass weekend! |
| 12.21.03 (6:12 pm) [edit] |
Turns out Remi is still in NY! I feel bad because I really didn't want her to go...she leaves Sunday on KLM good for you baby girl...I hope you have a blast in Naija!
I had the most uneventful weekend ever!
Moji came over Saturday night, and Wande joined us later...then Doyin, we just chilled. I made Spaghetti tatalata and Texas toast, and we watched MTV. Everyone left like 1am.. it was nice. I spent the greater part of Sunday cleaning my crib, I went to the Laundromat and washed my clothes, I came back, made fried rice, ate and crashed. Very uneventful, now I got Monday to look forward to...ye ha. I am still broke! what a mess, and I need to get Omolayo at least one thing for Christmas! I don't do Christmas but the poor girl is only 3! I already opened all the goodies her father bought her, he did good this year, she got tons of clothes from Children's place and a Barbie laptop...the chick must be psychic, she just asked me "Mummy..what am I getting for Christmas?".
I wanted to be in NY for Christmas, but that would mean Omolayo would not have a family type Christmas, which isn't fair..so I was feeling kinda guilty and rescheduled my trip till after Christmas. I hear the rest of my family are gathering at my sisters for Christmas...how nice. I wish I could send Omolayo there at least they will be celebrating and her aunt is into the whole Christmas shin dig but oh well she'll just have to settle for her grinch of a mum. Aunty Tokunbo's husband is an ASS HOLE. I want just 5 minutes with the jerk to tell him what a useless son of a bitch he is, he's lucky I respect his wife, I would have driven to his house and cursed him out till the cops arrived..Bombaclot! So I cant get my little sweeries Jomi, Yanju, Tope and Dammy something this Christmas...damn...I am still taking that donation so feel free to send me a check! I feel so weak, I need like 8 hours of sleep tonight so I'll be able to function in the AM. I spoke with my FRIEND today...I am getting mixed signals and I am on the verge of giving up...why does life have to be so damn complicated? I wish my heart would just do what my head tells it, but that shit operates on its own and I set myself up repeatedly! Alright, maybe I am like expecting too much? I just want a man that would be about me, love me unconditionally, respect me and my feelings, accept me as I am and support me...emotionally, because I am totally independent, is that too much? Ok as Moji would say, I am tripping!
I need to call Kunmbi...please if anyone is reading this and has a phone card to spare.... holla at your girl! I am pretty sure my dad is back, I guess he doesn't want to be bothered with me...what can i do? I wish we could be a normal family and everyone can just get over it! AS IF!
I hear my Derinsola is getting hitched! I am so happy for her! at least some of us will not die on our lonesome! I need to call her too.
I am tired now, so I will bitch later.
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| Remi...the pain in my ASS! |
| 12.18.03 (10:48 am) [edit] |
Let me gist yall! My girl Remi right, went to Naija on Wednesday. On Tuesday, mo sa kuro ni ibise so that mo le gbe ass e lo si gbo gbo ibi ti o ba lo. O drive mi bananas!
Last minute ni o se gbo gbo shopping e! AS IF!
I actually went to bed like 8 pm! Remi finally came back to my place around 10pm and they could not wake my ass up I was done!
I asked this one chick to help me do my laundry, no she volunteered to do my laundry for me right, so she comes to work really upset! I am like what’s wrong baby girl, she gave me an ‘I’m about to cry’ look and said she won’t be able to do my laundry any more! I felt like shit, she said she stayed up all night! Oh my goodness! I hope baby girl does not take me to HR! Aight so I wrote her an apology note and told her it would never happen again!
Why was all my damn clothes wet? She folded wet clothes! I guess that’s what my ass get for trying to flunk baby girl!
I had to take that shit to the Laundromat and start fresh!
I saw OC yesterday, did I mention how cute white boys were? Like I would so marry a white boy right now.
Oh my goodness yall! Omolayo can spell her name! My baby is so smart I wonder where she get it from!
Moji’s dad left me a message this morning thanking me, I guess for driving on Saturday …isn’t that sweet! Aight I gotta get back to work now…I will holla at yall later!
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| My girl Bukky! |
| 12.15.03 (11:04 am) [edit] |
I spoke with Bukky this weekend, Bukky and I go way back, she was my # 1 OG back in International School Ifako, we lost touch when she came to Yankee, but I’ll never forget her, her family practically adopted me and I would stay at her crib on and off, we would do things together along with Toyin…oh my god where the hell is Toyin?
All right has anyone seen my dearest Toyin Oluwa? Holla at me if you know her whereabouts.
Back to Bukky, back then she weighed all of 98pounds, tiny little girl, but I recently saw her picture and she’s like WHOA! She is looking hell of good! She aint fat but PHAT! It was nice to hear from Bukky, she always had my back, I used to raid her closet in Naija cause she had mad baffs!
Bukky is now in Minnesota….STAY TUNED for Bukky’s picture.
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| Remi is staying with Tosin! |
| 12.15.03 (9:43 am) [edit] |
Remi was suppose to come and stay with me before she heads to Nigeria, but now she is yarning patua….she’ll be at Tosin’s crib As if!:roll:
I am mad! Omolayo was looking forward to seeing Aunty Derele and Aunty Remi, Oh well such is life…I was pissed last night but I am over it now.
Spoke with Remi this morning she feels bad, good she should! :twisted: I still love her any way.
I miss my FRIEND sooooo much,:cry: I can’t wait to see him again! We talk everyday but its not the same, I wish we were in the same State! I would…..:D OHHH don’t you wanna know what I would do! Okay I am done sharing about my friend for now.
So Remi will come by later today, I brought Omolayo to work this morning for a couple hours, she stayed with Sonia and Deepa and I did not see much of her till it was time to go.
Yeah I had a fake Dr. Appointment this morning, I told the bitch that so her ass would stop dele-freaking-gating! The last time I checked Vipan was my boss! :?
I had to reschedule my fake appointment because I don’t want the bitch to affect my job.
She caught herself speaking to me this morning…AS IF!:evil:
Alright breath in…..out, much better.
I am so broke, its ridiculous….I will be taking donations so email me and I’ll tell you where to send the money.
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| My girl Momo! |
| 12.15.03 (9:02 am) [edit] |
Moji’s birthday is 1/10/04, homegal will be 26! Ye pa twenty fucking six, I’m next damn, can we slow things down a bit? Can I be 18 and Naïve once again?
Alright so we are having this RA RA for moji, we’ll invite all the eligible bachelors and scope them out.
Criteria:
1. Gota have a job
2. Easy on the eye ( no ugly Mutha’s Please)
3. Nice dress sense ( don’t wear your buddie pants please)
4. Eloquent verbiage ( If you tabon…you need not apply)
5. No cheap ass bro ( if we go out…you pay dammit )
6. No Pot bell, big yansh, unkept, talkative, alcoholics!
7. No Asewo….If you’ve had sex with more than 3 women this year…fuck the hell OFF!
Now that we are clear, if you meet the above criterias send me an email, I just might send you an invite.
ONE
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| I had a nice weekend! |
| 12.15.03 (6:58 am) [edit] |
I had a great weekend. Moji and I decided to go to NY to see some friends and attend this get-together type gig a friend of hers was throwing. We also took her dad to New Jersey to see some old friends. I dropped Omolayo off with her dad and headed to Moji’s house, the plan was to leave at 11am prompt, but Moji’s ass late as usual was not ready, we ended up leaving at quarter after 12. We drove for ages it seemed because there was mad traffic.
We went to Helen’s house in Dayton NJ, galfriend’s got a nice crib…almost as cute as mine!J
We dressed quickly and headed to Staten Island to pick up my girl Victoria, Moji met Kunle Victoria’s man, by the way Vicky’s getting married! Oh my goodness! I am so happy for her! Vicky made some fresh fish stew…you know my ass had to eat some of that! It was heck of good!
Finally we picked up Remi from Manhattan, Remi’s got a Carrie type Apt, I am so jealous!
We got to the gig at about 10 pm. It was different, not your average get-together, more like a cocktail, we tried to mingle and we were asked to introduce ourselves and talk about the things we are passionate about. Everyone has finished their first degree, most were working on their second but mua…no, I was the single mama who hadn’t finished school! I guess I should have felt bad but I didn’t, I mean I am the most fabulous person I know! I talked about my passion for writing and painting, I haven’t painted in a while, a friend Nichole turned me on to it a while back and I have been hooked ever since!
Kunle took us to the club afterwards, some club in Manhattan, it was nice, his two friends came with along with Moji, Remi, Victoria, Helen and I. We had a blast! I found a good spot to sit and observed as usual, I don’t dance…not till about the wee hours when its time to go.
Kunle try too hook me up with one of the friends, the guy could pass for 50 and I was like NO! then he tried to hook the same guy up with Moji, Moji was like…No he dient!
Reminder to self….Kick Kunle’s ass the next time I see him!
We headed back to Helen’s place at about 4am, tired as hell, Helen drove, she was falling asleep so Moji had to drive. I had too pee so I did it right there on the Highway! Yeah I’m ghetto and what? I made some noodles when I got to Helen’s place, it was good!
It snow like a couple inches by the time we got up in the morning, Moji and I ate Jollof rice, Helen can cook! The rice was off the hook!
So the weekend was nice ! We got back to MD at about 5pm.
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L-R: Helen, Bola, Victoria and Remi..cant remeber dude's name..nice guy though!
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Me and my girlfriend..Vicky from way back
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Momo and I
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On the streets of New York...stuck in traffic
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| Spoke way too soon.... |
| 12.12.03 (12:02 pm) [edit] |
I guess I spoke too soon about my great week because I am having a not so great day.:cry:
Yesterday the Bitch as she will be known from now on sent me an email requesting that I report to work at 9 am! WTF!:x
She is just trying to get at me from my weakest point, everyone knows my ass come in late every damn day! Hell I got an hour and half commute to get get to this micky flick…this is why I cant stand black women....its always a power struggle!:roll:
I went to Moji’s house last night, her dad is in town and will be staying with her for a few days…damn lucky gal, she gets to play daddy’s little girl for four whole days. I can’t even get my dad to do 4 hours! She made Ila asepo, my favorite! And she took Omolayo with her to the Airport to get her dad, they did not get back till almost 11, I was heck of tired and my princess and I rolled out.
Why can’t I stop thinking about my FRIEND, the shit is getting on my damn nerves! I think I’m in love…could it be :?: Mua :?: in all my splendor, fall in love :?: ....stay tuned!
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| My Week |
| 12.10.03 (7:58 pm) [edit] |
My week has been great so far, I caught a great sale at the Limited...you know my ass don't have no money!
I finally told this bitch at work about herself...felt great! I had the most intense weekend; I went to this house party and it was
different is all I am at liberty to say. My girl Moji and I went with FRIENDS to this white bar in Towson..oh my goodness, white boys are ssooooo foine! These two guys thought we were alone and tried to holla! I was blushing like hell because I was under the assumption that white folks were not attracted to me!
Ok back to the party, it was hell-a dry, I mean WTF? We didn't know anyone, there were a lot of young'ns, this one child had on this track suit, look like he made that shit out of his comforter! then this chick look like she made up with playdoh!
The birthday boy was a friend of a FRIEND, he faked his surprise! He actually invited people to his surprise parry! I thought that was hilarious! Nice guy though.
Oh, I went to church this Sunday yall....yup sure did! It was nice I was there for hours and I did not fall asleep! I did not whine once...I was totally feeling the Word! I took Moji and my FRIEND to my favorite joint, check it out when you can....its called Lex Cajun Grill on Connecticut Ave, be sure to order Thai Jerk Chicken.
Alright peep this...my baby daddy called me up on Tuesday at like 11:30 pm, I thought it was my FRIEND so I picked up my phone right, bama said he wanted to speak with Molayo AS IF.... Aight I promised to be civil when dealing with this man so here goes. I politely informed him that 9pm is bedtime in my crib so call during the day, he went on to say he has decided to take me back because our child asked him to marry her mummy...I sat up on that note! pause, rewind, hold the hell up! take me back? Nuga please! I left ya ass remember! He offered me the finer things in life, along with a new home in Potomac, this boy has gone ga ga! I told him to go straight to hell, do not pass go, do not collect squat!
What! have I suddenly caught amnesia and forgotten the torture you put me through? Boy, I go strip butt naked and swear for you egba style o bomboclot!
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| My precious Omolayo! |
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| There I am! |
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| Christmas Gifts |
| 12.08.03 (1:41 pm) [edit] |
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This christmas you're all getting forks I've stolen from numerous different restaurants with a note attached saying: if anyone asks, you didn't get this from me. so there. or better yet, I'll give you stolen napkins cus I may be able to milk some money out of that homeless guy down the street for those forks...sorry. :wink:
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| A little about mua…. |
| 12.08.03 (1:05 pm) [edit] |
I am 25 years old, born August 30, 1978…
I work for Comcast, this is my fourth year.
I am the second of six children, four from my mum and 6 from my dad.
I also am the proud mother of a beautiful 3 year old brat, Omolayo! The sugar in my tea, the pillow on my bed, the pain in my ASS!
My dream is to be a writer, I hope to write articles for a newspaper, a magazine or some other publication in the near future, then eventually start my own paper.
I still haven’t finished school which is one of my major goals, along with marrying Prince Charming! I am working on it though, the way I see it I will achieve these goals before menopause….hopefully!
I enjoy staying home…that right, doing jack schitt! I just want to lay up and watch a good movie, cook a nice meal and just chill.
I go out every now and then but for the most part I am a homebody.
I am trying to lose like 15 pounds before the end of the year, I am sick and tired of all these skinny heifers getting all the cute clothes! I used to be a size 3! But Omolayo changed all that, now my fat ass can’t even find a cute top that won’t reveal my folds, people have started mistaken me for a conservative because of all the lose shit I get to wear!
I’d like to quit smoking this year too!
I will also like to save some money, I am a renowned shop-a-holic, I buy things just because; needs and wants…I need to prioritize.
My favorite show is Sex in the city and Girlfriends!
My friends say I am a cross between Samantha and Toni…what! Toni is obnoxious and Sam is a whore! What yall saying?
Read about my friends.
Bob Carlisle is my favorite artist, his music ministers to my soul, I am really feeling dude! He reminds me that God is still alive! And that in spite of my plentiful shortcomings, He still loves me!
I am from a very dysfunctional family, all we do is fight, my Dad and my siblings don’t get along, my parents don’t get along, my sister and I are on and offish and I can’t stand my brother! Love him to death but I just can’t stand his ass. My mum and I fight like cats and dogs, we are exactly alike so we don’t mix. I love her though and will forever be indebted to her for all she has done for me.
My father and I try to remain close but we’ve been apart for so long it’s really hard. I feel like I have to apologize for everything I say or do and I can’t really be myself for fear that he may not want to be in my life anymore…its rough. I love them all to bits but they get on my damn nerves.
My only safe haven is writing…I can truly express myself…….
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| Me and my best friends! |
| 12.05.03 (2:41 pm) [edit] |
I am the only person I know that has like 6 best friends, I mean they are all my friends for different reasons, no particular one more special than the other. They will all be my maids of Honor! Helll yeah! Imma have six of em….and what?:?
……First there is Bisola….I love her to bits, she irritates the hell out of me at time but hey! She married an older guy, which is cool as long as she’s happy! They have two lovely kids together.
…..Then there is Moji….uppity little brat when she wanna be, we are about the same size so the heifer can steal my clothes…hey I can steal hers too, we have similar taste so it works!! Great gal really, my life would be the same without my momo!
…..Yes Remi, Remi should be a plus size model…cute as hell with a great set of TWINS!!
I love Remi like a sister, we’ve been friends for a while and I can talk to her and get honest feedback, plus she loves my princess like she was her own!
….Oh lets not forget Imade….she is truly stuck up! And I love her for it, if I didn’t know her I would probable kill her for being so cute, home girl is shaped like an hour glass! Imade is happily married now with a beautiful baby girl!
Sinmbo…my girl from way way back! I don’t get to see her much, since she’s janded and all but she is always on my mind…Sinmbo is about to be a mummy soon and I can’t wait! That’s my God baby!:D
Temilolo a.k.a Thelma….damn! this chick is an epitome of beauty, very pleasant and mild mannered. Thelma became a best friend after she displayed true friendship to me, I am forever indebted to her…..baby girl if Grandma could see us now, she’d turn in her grave!
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| Twenty something…. |
| 12.05.03 (2:11 pm) [edit] |
At twenty something we’ve done the school thing, moved out on our own, we have the whole independence thing worked out but the damn clock won’t stop ticking.
We can no longer go to all the gigs because we are too old, can’t socialize with the younger folks lest we be call ‘agbaya’. In every girls mind we are thinking marriage, marriage, kids, kids and some more marriage. All the dudes you meet you are sizing up as potential husband.
You’ve got a few girlfriends that have caught one, but for some weird reason them bitches get on your damn nerves, everything you say or do suddenly become immature, their favorite thing to say is ‘wait till you get married’ well shit bitch, I am waiting!
Remember when you were kids and you’d gist with your friends on what age you intend to marry, what the guy’s profession would be and how you’d live happily ever after! Well damn! No one ever said you’d have to wait this damn long! And please don‘t you dare mention the subject when you do catch one, he will run so fast, ya head go spin! Why is that? Why is it that all a twenty something woman thinks about is marriage but the men don’t want to hear it?
I attended a wedding recently where the groom was like 26 and the bride was a mere 19! How in the hell did she pull that off! Yeah I was jealous! Jealous not of her man but jealous that I did not have one of my own! “Lucky bitch!” I kept saying to myself. It was the most beautiful ceremony though. As they pledged their undying love to each other my eyes welled up with tears of envy! She was so beautiful and he so adored her!
So what do we do now? You’ve got it all in perspective but you are nearing your expiration date and no one has taken you off the shelf! What do we do I ask? Well I’ll tell you what the hell I’m gonna do, what the rest of the 20 something heifers out here do….. Fake like it don’t even matter!
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| I do...or do I |
| 12.05.03 (2:09 pm) [edit] |
“Please Omobolanle be my wife! I love you with all my heart and I want to spend the rest of my life with you. You complete me in ways I’d never thought possible.”
So, he finally proposes! He hands you a black box and tears welled your eyes, you could barely contain yourself, you muffled what appeared to be a “yes’ as you struggled to open the box. Your heart dropped as you saw a gold band with what appears to be diamond Chip! It reminded you of the earring you used for your first piercing.
WTF? Your girls are going to have a field day at your expense when they see this because y’all already had this conversation! You were the most vocal because you were certain he would do at least a full carat if not two! But this shit right here was like a .005, it look like a little misplaced dot! I mean, brother man clocks like 80 grand annually! You would think he could do berra!
You accept it and pretend to be delighted but he catches on that you were bothered.
Clueless, he asks if you like it ‘hell no’ you thought to yourself, but you smiled and lied to him that it was beaurrriful!
So brothers, please take notes:
An engagement band symbolizes eternity…. you plan to be with her forever and the ring is a token of that promise to her. You will only buy it once so invest in it.
Get to know your woman! What kind of jewelry does she wear? Is she glitzy or frugal? Which shape does she prefer? There are several, so it’s important to know! We’ve got Round, Princess, Emerald, Asscher, Marquise, Oval, Radiant, Pear and Heart!
To determine the setting you will opt for. The setting is the arrangement of stones within the metal frame of the ring. A good setting is like the right picture frame: it needs to show off what is inside and be able to fit in with its surroundings. It is, therefore, important to find the perfect setting that goes not only with the stone chosen, but also looks good on your First lady’s hand! A woman should love her ring and wear it proudly. Engagement rings are popularly available set in gold and white gold. Silver is rarely used because it tarnishes and therefore is not a good representation of eternity. Platinum is now popular and worn by almost one-third of today's engaged women. 14-Karat gold and 24 karat gold are numbers, which refer to the purity of the gold. 24- karat is pure gold, while 14-karat is a blend with 14 parts gold and 10 parts of another metal and please stay away from the 10-karat cause you may as well hand her your sprite can!
As for how much you should spend… well you do the math. If your monthly take home pay is $5,000, then multiply it by two. So her ring should cost at least $10,000. Save for it or put in on a card (when you marry her she’ll help pay for it).
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| Snow Day |
| 12.05.03 (1:10 pm) [edit] |
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It started snowing today, I am a bit dissapointed because I am expecting company, and my company may not drive in the snow! Hey if I am special enough he will dargonit!
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| Finally! |
| 12.05.03 (1:06 pm) [edit] |
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A place where I can express myself! I am technologically challenged so I am digging this elementary type gig. :D
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